Note on names: You will see this person called Jay Kelly, Jaya Kelly, Jaah, or JaahBaby. In 2014, Jay publicly said he was a trans boy. In a 2019 interview, he later shared that he did not want a strict label and was comfortable with people using different words for him. In this article, I use Jay/Jaah and mostly neutral language to respect that journey.
Personl Information
Item | Detail |
---|---|
Full name | Jay (Jaya) Kelly |
Also known as | Jaah, JaahBaby (artist name) |
Parents | Andrea “Drea” Kelly (dancer/choreographer) and Robert “R. Kelly” Kelly |
Siblings | Joann “Buku Abi” Kelly (older sister), Robert Kelly Jr. (younger brother) |
Known for | Speaking openly about identity as a teen (2014); music as JaahBaby; 2019 Pride feature |
Work | Recording artist / producer; releases and demos shared online |
Public identity notes | Came out as a trans boy at 14 (2014); in 2019 said labels felt limiting and was fine with varied pronouns |
Early life and family
Jay/Jaah is the middle child of singer R. Kelly and dancer-choreographer Andrea “Drea” Kelly. He grew up with an older sister, Joann (who performs as Buku Abi), and a younger brother, Robert Jr. The family lived much of their life in and around Chicago, and the children were often kept away from the spotlight when they were young.
Coming out at 14: a brave and public step

In 2014, as a young teen, Jay used a Q&A site to answer questions about how he felt about himself. He told followers that he identified as a boy and wanted to live as himself. His mother, Drea, supported him, and his sister also showed love and respect in how she spoke to him. Major outlets covered this moment, noting the courage it took to speak so clearly at such a young age.
At the same time, reporters asked R. Kelly about his child’s news. In a radio chat that year, he spoke in a guarded way and told people to “support your kids,” but he also pushed back on the way the story was framed in blogs.
Mental health, support, and a wider lesson
Coming out young, and doing it online, was not easy. In interviews looking back, Jay/Jaah said he went through a hard time afterward and spent three weeks in a psychiatric hospital. He also said that his mother stood by him and gave steady love. This part of the story is important because it shows how a parent’s support can help a young person in a very public and stressful time.
Evolving labels and identity
By 2019, in that interview, Jay/Jaah said he no longer wanted to lock himself into a single label. He said he knew he loved girls and used the word “lesbian” then, but he also said labels did not define his whole truth, and he was fine if people saw him as male, female, gender-fluid, or nonbinary. This shows a journey that many young people feel: identity can change, and language can change, too. The key message was simple—live honestly and be kind to yourself.
Music as a voice: becoming “JaahBaby”
Music is a big part of Jay/Jaah’s life. He learned instruments, taught himself piano by watching videos, and began making tracks at home. In 2019, a feature premiered a song called “Reservoir” from the artist name JaahBaby and described how the sound blends hip-hop and R&B with a personal edge. He has shared demos and tracks online in the years since, using his art to speak when words are hard.
Relationship with family today (what we can say)
Public reports say the children have had limited contact with their father in some periods, and Jay/Jaah has focused on his own path—music, close family ties, and personal growth away from the noise. Jay/Jaah himself has said his father was not a big part of his life, and later reporting often centered more on his sister Buku’s public comments than on Jay/Jaah, who tends to keep a lower profile. Respecting that privacy is important; most updates since 2019 come through music drops or features rather than frequent interviews.
Why Jay/Jaah’s story matters

Jay/Jaah’s story is not just about a famous last name. It is about a young person learning who they are, facing a storm of public attention, and still choosing honesty. The 2014 coming-out moment showed bravery. The 2019 talk about stepping away from strict labels showed growth. The music shows another way to speak. For readers, the lesson is clear: identity can be a journey, and kindness from family and friends can make that journey safer.
Final thoughts
Jay/Jaah Kelly’s path shows how identity can change over time and how art can help you tell your truth. The story begins with a brave teen in 2014 and continues with an artist learning, creating, and setting boundaries. If you are writing about him, keep your language simple, kind, and accurate. Use his current name (Jay or Jaah) when possible, and remember that every person has the right to grow and define themselves at their own pace.
Frequently asked questions (FAQs)
1) Is “Jaya Kelly” the same person as “Jay Kelly” or “JaahBaby”?
Yes. Media and fans have used several names over time: Jaya/Jay and the artist name Jaah/JaahBaby.
2) When did Jay/Jaah first speak publicly about identity?
In 2014, at about 14 years old, via a Q&A site. Major outlets covered the story.
3) What did Jay/Jaah say later about labels and pronouns?
In 2019, he said labels felt limiting and that he was comfortable with people using different words for him; he focused on living truthfully.
4) Does Jay/Jaah still make music?
Yes. He has shared tracks and demos under JaahBaby/Jaah and has been featured for his songs and production.
5) What support did he get from family?
His mother, Andrea “Drea” Kelly, supported him strongly. The 2014 reports and the 2019 profile both note this support.
6) Did public attention affect his mental health?
Yes. He has said that after coming out as a teen he struggled and spent three weeks in a psychiatric hospital.
7) How many siblings does Jay/Jaah have?
Two: Joann “Buku Abi” and Robert Jr.
8) What is one song connected with his 2019 feature?
“Reservoir.”
9) What has his father said publicly?
In 2014, R. Kelly gave a guarded response in a radio chat and said parents should support their kids, while also pushing back on how blogs framed the story.
10) What is the best way to refer to him now?
Use Jay or Jaah, and speak with respect. Public reporting shows he has moved away from strict labels. When in doubt, neutral language is kind.
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